10 questions you should ask to yourself
Self Improvement September 28th, 2007
Be all you can be, but it’s not always in the Army. I often see myself as somewhat contented with my life the way things are, but of course it’s hard to think of anything else when where are real issues to be discussed.
Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.
So we’re all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn’t even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks… or can they?
1. What do I really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.
Find something that you are good at can help realize that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.
2. Should I really change?
Today’s generation has taken another level of redefining ’self’, or at least that’s what the kids are saying. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
If history has taught us one thing, it’s the life that we have gone through. Try to see if partying Seventies style wouldn’t appeal to the younger generation, but dancing is part of partying. Watch them applaud after showing them how to really dance than break their bones in break-dancing.
3. What’s the bright side in all of this?
With so much is happening around us there seem to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it’s a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!
4. Am I comfortable with what I’m doing?
There’s always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot. It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.
5. Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you’ll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.
6. Am I happy at where I am today?
It’s an unfair question so let it be an answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life!
7. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don’t have an answer to that, but that doesn’t mean I can’t try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit.
8. How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it’s more on how badly you really need it. I’d like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is that how much are you willing to work for it?
9. What motivates me?
What motivates you? It’s an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. It’s not like you can’t have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that’s it. Just try it piece by piece.
10. What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.
November 4th, 2007 at 3:04 pm
im the 1st!
November 4th, 2007 at 6:03 pm
9. What motivates me?
ini merujuk kepada kenapa meningkatnya komen2 disini…sebabnya ada sesuatu yg motivate kita..betul kan?
November 4th, 2007 at 6:55 pm
9.
Q.9. What motivates me?
A.Money.
November 4th, 2007 at 10:58 pm
duit motivasi ke? duit oh duit? kenapa ramai orang perlukan duit? kalo tak ada duit tak boleh ke untuk motivasikan ramai orang?
nape duit memotivatekan kita? begitu sekali tarikan berduitnya itu.
November 4th, 2007 at 11:17 pm
haha..dah mula la si abdfatah nie..dgn ayat2 sasteranya..mudah shj..kenapa sy perlu duit ini..utk bayar hosting sy..kalau tak byr hosting..camana korang nak masuk blog aku “:D
November 6th, 2007 at 4:00 am
tak jugak sebenarnya.Kita komen byk2 ni maybe ada sbb lain..contohnya sbb bosan, xtau nak watpe, n mcm2 lagi…
ataupun nak dpt traffic?
Erm…
November 6th, 2007 at 11:00 am
nk dapat trafik? hm..aku rasa tak jgk..sebab kalau nk dapat trafik..takkan kita bertiga je..mesti org lain nak trafik..mungkin dia ada extra money..haha korang try tgk personal blog dia di hafreze.com dia ada ckp brape earning dia bulan ni..
November 9th, 2007 at 8:49 am
tak kira tak kira tak kira dan tak kira… memang nak dapatkan duit untuk bayar hosting dan juga bandwitdh yang terlebih. hahahaa
November 9th, 2007 at 5:02 pm
huhu..aku sedang blajar camana nak dpatkan trafik..selain dari search engine..ada cara lain lagi tak?
November 9th, 2007 at 6:59 pm
kena jelajah dan tanyalah blog2 mereka yang mahir dalam seo atau search engine atau dapatkan ebook yang berkaitan dengan traffik dan gunakannya sepenuhnya untuk merankingkan blog anda dengan jayanya…
November 9th, 2007 at 7:30 pm
ok itu kata mereka yg sudah pakar..ape pula tips dari anda en fatah?
November 9th, 2007 at 8:09 pm
tips mudah je. buat research keyword yang dicari ramai dan gaulkan aje dengan idea-idea semasa yang menjadi perhatian ramai setiap bulan… gitulah rasanya.
lagi bagus kalo ada yang lebih niche untuk pasaran khusus sebagaimana acuan adsense yang akan memberikan iklannya mengikut niche satu2 blog. gitu kan?
gunakan juga panduan dari awstats anda yang popular dalam bulan tersebut. gitu kan?
betul laa agaknya sedikit sebanyaknya…
agak-agak je????
November 9th, 2007 at 8:36 pm
dari awstats? abang boleh kasi tau ape itu awstat?
November 15th, 2007 at 8:40 pm
bleh jenguk awstats dalam cpanel hosting kita. kena cari maklumat berkaitan cpanel dari website belajarcpanel dot com ( peromote laa pulok??)
awstats nih akan senaraikan keyword yang dicari dan ditaip yang akan menemukan website kita kpd mereka yang taip menaip di search enjin google.
dan lain2 maklumat berkaitan dengan kunjungan pelawat semasa…
ahahaa… google aje laa berkaitan apa itu awstats. boleh???
November 15th, 2007 at 11:43 pm
ok bro..dah jenguk dah..huhu mencanak2 graf rupanya..yg paling best bandwitdh tu tinggal 2percent je lagi