Inspiring Yourselves For Self-Improvement
Self Improvement October 5th, 2007
They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks… or can they? So we’re all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn’t even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.
- Should I really change?
Today’s generation has taken another level of redefining ’self’, or at least that’s what the kids are saying. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
If history has taught us one thing, it’s the life that we have gone through. Try to see if partying Seventies style wouldn’t appeal to the younger generation, but dancing is part of partying. Watch them applaud after showing them how to really dance than break their bones in break-dancing.
- Am I comfortable with what I’m doing?
There’s always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot. It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.
- What motivates me?
What motivates you? It’s an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. It’s not like you can’t have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that’s it. Just try it piece by piece.
- Am I happy at where I am today?
It’s an unfair question so let it be an answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life!
- How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it’s more on how badly you really need it. I’d like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is that how much are you willing to work for it?
- What do I really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.Find something that you are good at can help realize that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.
- What’s the bright side in all of this?
With so much is happening around us there seem to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it’s a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!
- Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you’ll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.
- What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.
- Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don’t have an answer to that, but that doesn’t mean I can’t try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit.
No matter how are the question that being asked to you, you are the one who know yourselves better than others. As a startup, try the above 10 question to yourself and answered them honestly
October 5th, 2007 at 6:45 am
All yor question lead to one thing. Muhasabah your self to step in bright future.
Just my 2 cents.
Salam perkenalan dari Tok Teratak.
November 4th, 2007 at 1:47 am
masa depan yang cerah bermula dengan analisa diri sendiri. sedar diri siapa diri kita di muka bumi ini. wuhuuuu…
November 4th, 2007 at 10:54 pm
berapa banyak soalan yang mahu ditanya? dan berapa banyak jawapan yang ada hanya anda yang tahu untuk menggunakannya demi kebaikan masa depan diri anda sendiri.
motivasi memang penting sebagai pendorong ke arah kejayaan apa jua yang ingin kita lakukan. takder morivasi memang tak ada maknanya biarpun motivasi itu sering datang dan pergi…
November 5th, 2007 at 11:31 am
cermin diri sendiri..ambil satu kertas..tulis kekuatan dan kelemahan..senaraikan..yg mana lemah kita perbaiki yg mana kukuh kita perkuatkan
November 5th, 2007 at 9:50 pm
beli cermin 4 muka 4 segi atau bulat atau panjang dan leper. letakkan di ruang tamu dan berjuanglah untuk berubah ke arah kehidupan yang positif dan menggembirakana. kalo tak ada perubahan macam mana nak berdepan dengan kegagalan sendainya kita memang takut untuk berubah… gagal adalah semakna dengan pengalaman. apa makna kegagalan makcik pakcik adik kakak semua…? ia adalah pengalaman!
jika cikgu bagi soklan kpd adik-adik jawablah dengan selambnya bahwa gagal itu adalah maknanya pengalaman…
tak ada pengalaman bagaimana kejayaan nak datang?
November 5th, 2007 at 10:09 pm
cikgu sy pula lain bunyinya..beliau membankang penggunaan kata2 “belajar dari pengalaman” kerana itu tidak tepat..ayat paling tepat ialah “belajar dari pembetulan”
November 6th, 2007 at 4:07 am
“belajar dari pembetulan”… waa..mnarik. msti cikgu 2 suke suruh anak murid wat pembetulan kat kertas2 perekse yang budak2 salah jawab..kene ulang 2-3 kali ker..adoii…terkenang sejarah lampau..
November 6th, 2007 at 10:57 am
huhu..betul2 cikgu tu bekas cikgu sekolah menengah..dia amek master then ajar kat sini..huhu tension..sebab too particular..even kesalahan tatabahasa dlam soalan esei yg bukan pasal tatabahasa pun dia potong markah
November 6th, 2007 at 11:56 pm
kalo gitu saya nak belajar dari kebetulan yang menajdi pengalaman kepada apa yang telah diperbetulkan oleh cikgu malaysia masa kini.
November 7th, 2007 at 12:21 am
kebetulan? tak paham maksud yg cuba en fatah sampaikan..boleh jelaskan dengan lebih lanjut?
November 9th, 2007 at 8:54 am
kebetulan yang sukar nak perbetulkan…
kebetulan dengan apa yer? hmmmm… mari kita sama-sama fikir-fikirkan…
November 9th, 2007 at 5:03 pm
haha..tak larat dah nak mikir..kebetulan itu satu penyeksaan betul ke?
November 15th, 2007 at 7:54 pm
oleh itu mari kita perbetulkan matlamat tatkala sedang belajar dan hambik periksa dan juga ketika nak cari kerja mencari uwang poket untuk jaminan masa depan yang lebih cerah…
November 15th, 2007 at 11:57 pm
mcm nila..kita belajar siang malam berblog..siang utk masa depan..malam utk masa depan jgk..camana..berjaya tak agak2?
November 16th, 2007 at 12:00 am
berblog laa siang malam aje selama sebulan dua. lepas tu sambung balik sebulan dua… hahahaa
April 28th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
I don’t know what others are saying but i found your article very interesting. The way you have put things is really impressive thanks again.